Dr. Bonnie Kester Dr. Bonnie Kester

Queer for the Holidays: Going Home to an Unaccepting Family

For many LGBTQ+ individuals, the holidays can be a time of mixed emotions. The idea of returning home to family is a universal one, but for those in the LGBTQ+ community, it sometimes comes with the heavy weight of potential rejection, fear, and anxiety. While some might find comfort and solace in being with their loved ones, for others, the journey home is riddled with emotional challenges. This post is an exploration of the complexities of being LGBTQ+ and navigating the experience of returning home to a family that might not understand or accept your identity.

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Dr. Bonnie Kester Dr. Bonnie Kester

Unlocking Healing: How Trauma Affects Sexual Health and Pathways to Reclaiming Intimacy

Sexual health is a fundamental aspect of overall well-being, yet many individuals struggle with sexual dysfunction, often linked to past trauma. Understanding the relationship between trauma and sexual dysfunction can empower those affected and pave the way for healing, connection, and pleasure. No experience of traumatic events is undeserving of care and attention, especially when it has impacts on different areas of functioning.

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Dr. Bonnie Kester Dr. Bonnie Kester

Unlocking Authenticity: The Transformative Mental Health Benefits of HRT for Trans and Non-Binary Individuals

In recent years, there has been growing recognition of the profound impact hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can have on the psychological well-being of transgender and non-binary (trans/NB+)  folx. While the physical changes brought about by HRT are often highlighted, the emotional and mental health benefits are equally significant and deserving of attention. HRT has a high potential to contribute to a more fulfilling and authentic life for many trans/NB+ people.

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Dr. Bonnie Kester Dr. Bonnie Kester

Redefining Beauty: Embracing Body Diversity and Building a Positive Self-Image in a Social Media World

Social media, family culture, and our larger cultural contexts play significant roles in shaping our body image. For every gender, racial identity, sexual orientation, age, ability, religion, socioeconomic status, and so on, beauty standards can vary, which can create a very confusing, conflicting, and further unattainable goalpost to reach—one that seems to move with every passing year.  

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